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Showing posts with label education. Show all posts

MOTHERHOOD: Bestselling Book Promises Kids Will Fall Asleep at Bedtime

Reading has a calming effect to many, that is why when we read we get sleepy. 
It's good  to practice children reading at least 20 minutes a day. Studies have shown that reading helps children academically.  Reading to them before they sleep is a special time between you and your child.  So grab any book tonight and read to them.



Link: https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/best-selling-book-promises-kids-will-fall-asleep-126940733592.html

A book called The Rabbit Who Wants to Fall Asleep claims to help children have a restful and long sleep. (Photo: Getty Images) 
Good news for parents of children who either refuse to go to bed or have sleeping issues: A book called The Rabbit Who Wants to Fall Asleep promises to change that.
While the book was published in April 2014, it’s recently skyrocketed in popularity, topping the Amazon bestseller list — a first for a self-published book — and even outselling Harper Lee’s Go Set a Watchman and Paula Hawkins’s The Girl on the Train. And its Facebook page has 20,000 likes and rave reviews from parents who bought the book. According to Amazon, Roger’s story is “a quick and guaranteed way to help your child relax in the evening or during a nap.”
The 26-page book, written by Carl-Johan Forssén Ehrlin, a Swedish psychologist and linguist, uses psychological tricks and positive-reinforcement methods to soothe children to sleep. The premise is simple: Roger the Rabbit is so tired but he can’t fall asleep, so he and Mommy Rabbit visit “Uncle Yawn.” On their way, they bump into Sleepy Snail and Heavy-Eyed Owl, both of whom offer advice on how to catch some z’s. After Uncle Yawn sprinkles magical sleeping powder on Roger, he’s able to make it home and fall asleep in his bed.
Kids are encouraged to yawn throughout the story and emphasize key phrases to help them drift off, and parents can insert their child’s name into the story to immerse them.
How legit is the book as a sleep aid? Very, if you take these ominous warnings seriously: “Even if this book is harmless to use, the author and the publisher take no responsibility for the outcome,” and parents are discouraged from reading the book “close to someone driving any type of vehicle.”



The Rabbit Who Wants to Fall Asleep (Photo: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform)
“It’s the verbal equivalent of rocking your child to sleep,” Ehrlin, of Jonkoping University in Sweden, told the U.K.’s Daily Express. “[It helps] the child focus on relaxation and become part of the story.”
And parents on Amazon agree. While the book only has 14 reader reviews, it’s acquired 4.4 stars. “Both of us were asleep before the book was over. [Definitely] becoming part of our bedtime routine!” one parent wrote after reading the story to her “night owl” son. Wrote another, “Our 9 month old daughter has been wild at bedtime, and we’ve tried so many methods of calming her, but this has been the first thing to get her into sleep mode in under 20 minutes.”
Even a person named Jacob, who gave the book only 1 star, could hardly critique its effectiveness, although he did have a valid concern. “Bought the audio book so I could have my son listen to it in the car,” he wrote. “But I ended up falling asleep at the wheel and crashed my car. This book ended up costing me $3,000 for all the damages to my car, and ended up putting my son’s and my life in danger. I definitely do not recommend this product, and warn people not to listen to it in their car.”
Roger’s exhaustive search for sleep is reminiscent of the 1947 classic Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown. Unlike the fantastical nature of The Rabbit Who Wants to Fall AsleepGoodnight Moon used a style of writing called the “here and now” to make bedtime tempting to children. According to a story published by Mental Floss, back then, narratives that focused on children’s daily routines were unexplored territory, which contributed to the book’s success. The modern bedtime story has evolved to books such as the 2011 bestseller Go the F*** to Sleep by Adam Mansbach, dubbed a “children’s book for adults.”
As the mother of a 13-month-old boy who isn’t sleep-trained, I’ve ordered The Rabbit Who Wants to Fall Asleep, and I’m eager to embark on Roger’s adventure — even if I don’t stay awake to finish the story. 
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My Little Man is Learning

I've been wanting to send my li'l man to a day care for him to develop his social skills. I'm working in a school and seeing those toddlers coming to school every morning made me want more to send my little man.  I was sent to my first school at 4y/o and elders will always tell my mother that she's sending me so early.  So for a very long time I thought 5 or 6 y/o is the right age for a child to attend a proper school.

Before I have my li'l man, I would see some children less than 2 y/o in a preschool, so I changed my mind and said that I will send my child to school at 3-4.  He's turning 3 soon and I saw his interest in everything.  I think I will change my mind again.  I just felt he'll get bored with school early if I will push him to mainstream learning but I also do not want him to stop from learning.   Since I prepare worksheets for my classes weekly, I thought I'll prepare something for him too to do at home - sort of homeschooling.  I truly appreciates his nanny before who would prepare him some paper to write on or trace some letters.  I don't demand it from any of his nanny but seeing their concern over my son makes my heart melt.

In this age of computers, there's no excuse for me not to let him explore the world outside.  I am just taking advantage with the available technology at home.  With the help of youtube and IPad, I must say his alphabet developed.  He can't say all the letters yet but when I asks him where is letter "A, N, V..." he can recognize and point it.  Then I started to print out worksheets for him to color and asked his 'lolo' to bring out the worksheets before or after his nap.  I also see that he's now interested with clay, so it's time to bring out these stuff that he has long time ago.

I just thought that I can't simply give him any worksheets to do.  He needs consistency to follow through what he's discovering everyday.  So I plan to allow him to explore one letter a week.  That gives us 26 weeks to complete, that's more than half of the school year, whoa!  Of course, I need to be flexible and take it on his own pace.  This is really a good start!  I just hope his 'lolo' would be with me in this journey:)

I am so glad I found these sites for him to watch or for me to get ideas from.
Phonics Song 2 - he loves to watch this 


Now, I feel I want to be a Kindergarten Teacher!

EDUCATION: Homeschooling

I wanted the idea but homeschooling is not for every parent and of course, not for every child.  It's not one-size-fits-all.  Now let's see if this is for us.

Homeschooling  by Frugal Girls